2 Corinthians 5:14-15–For the love of Christ controls us, because we have concluded this: that one has died for all, therefore all have died; 15 and he died for all, that those who live might no longer live for themselves but for him who for their sake died and was raised.

Throughout history there have been numerous acts that would suggest that people can be very hospitable, or even seem “loving” when needed.  It has even led people to comment, “I have hope for humanity again, because of…”.  But what makes us consistent to be that way towards certain people and not everyone? Affinity.

The definition of affinity is, a spontaneous or natural liking or sympathy for someone or something.  So when we witness a tragedy clear across the world, and we find ourselves having a genuine heart to pray or mention them in our sympathies, that is affinity.  But those same people may not have our affinity if nothing has happened to them…
We generally like to pick and choose who we have affinity for.  Without being led by the Spirit, people must naturally relate to us in some way, in order for us to continue having affinity for them.  I believe that is a “common grace” God has given to humanity.  That there would be sympathy for one another, which is why most cultures band together, and are generally consistent to support each other.
But God and Him being love, convicts Christians to go deeper than affinity.  Jesus chose us, without natural relation, Him being a Jew and dying for all.  It was love, not affinity to come from heaven and choose to relate.  Sacrificing His throne of heavenly glory, to die for people who had no love or affinity for Him (Philippians 2:5-8).
Until you and I sacrifice affinity in order to display God’s love, it won’t reach beyond who and what we naturally like.
In His Love, Ld